3 Ways to Support a Loved One Living with Dementia (and Yourself)

3 Ways to Support a Loved One Living with Dementia (and Yourself)

This week is National Carers Week (12-18th October), and we want to take a moment to celebrate the incredible carers who give so much of themselves every day. Whether you’re a family member, friend, or professional, caring for someone living with dementia is one of the most meaningful, and often challenging, roles you can take on.

At Dementia Shop, we believe carers deserve just as much support and understanding as the people they care for. Here are three gentle reminders and practical ways to make each day a little easier for both of you.

1. Balance routines and independence

Structure provides comfort, but independence nurtures dignity.

Try keeping a simple daily rhythm (meals, walks, activities, rest) while allowing your loved one to make small choices along the way. Whether it’s picking their outfit or helping set the table, these moments of autonomy build confidence and connection.

Tip: Tools like memory aids and visual schedules can make routines easier to follow, while still promoting a sense of control. Browse Practical Help Collection

2. Simplify communication

As dementia progresses, words can become harder to find - but connection never disappears.

Use short sentences, calm tones, and gentle eye contact. Sometimes, non-verbal gestures or touch can communicate more than words ever could.

Tip: Keep background noise low and use familiar phrases or visual prompts to support understanding. Browse Conversation Games & Activities

3. Create calm, familiar spaces

A peaceful environment can ease anxiety and reduce confusion.Declutter where possible, keep lighting soft and even, and fill spaces with familiar photos or comforting scents. Calm surroundings help your loved one feel safe - and help you feel more at ease, too.

Tip: Soft sensory objects or calming activities like fidget blankets can help redirect restlessness and bring comfort. Browse Sensory Collection

You’re not alone

Caring for someone living with dementia is a journey of patience, love, and learning. Even when National Carers Week ends, our support continues.

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